Bumble Bee philosophy...

‎"Aerodynamically, the bumble bee shouldn't be able to fly, but the bumble bee doesn't know it so it goes on flying anyway."

 FLY she did! No Limits - No Boundaries for my lil' Bumble bee!

ADVENTURES...

(Spoiler Alert if you haven't seen the film).

The movie 'UP' has been playing in my head over the past two days. Well, not the whole movie but this particular scene.

This is the first movie I saw at the theater after Tyra died. I went with our good friend Miss Deb and both of us were in tears at Ellie's note to Carl.

ADVENTURES - I'd say this was the theme of Tyra and my life together. Just as Carl wanted to continue his adventures with Ellie - I too would like nothing more then to do this with my sweet girl. This however is not a choice I have been afforded. What I can do, what I can allow, what I believe Tyra would want for me is to "have new ones".

So, on to why the past two days have brought this about. Yesterday, I had an amazing opportunity to meet a wonderful mom and her very joyful little boy. The meeting was to share the Duet, our tandem bike, with this family. Tuesday I had a voicemail at my office from this wonderful mom inquiring about our bike. She had remembered meeting Tyra & I some years before when we were riding through the park. As her little boy has outgrown their bike trailer she was seeking out something new for him. She remembered US! Oh, how I love when people remember US. She described US to a woman from the Board of Ed and was quickly sent my direction. This woman too remembered US. During the visit on Friday my heart was warmed as this mom spoke of all the adventures they can now have with the Duet. We didn't have a name for our bike before but I think I am going to call it Carl from now on. Afterall, it has been a part of wonderful adventures and now it is off to make new ones.

 As for me, since Tyra died I have been riding solo (I take that back - Tyra is always with me). I too, am having new adventures. I have ridden and taken in some beautiful sites and met some wonderful people along the way. I have decided to call my bike Russell, the little wilderness explorer that Carl befriends. 



   

SEAGULL CENTURY DIVERSION



COVERED BRIDGE RIDE



PUBLIC LANDING CENTURY



BETWEEN THE WATERS CENTURY
Today's ADVENTURE

THANKFUL FOR

 ALL THE ADVENTURES!!!



THIS weekend...

THIS weekend has been one of my favorites for many years. Children in our county typically have four days off this weekend. I always looked forward to Tyra having time off from school. Four days to be together, four days to go on adventures, four days to make memories.

It was on THIS weekend that we traveled to the Magic Kingdom

It was on THIS weekend that Tyra went on her first date

It was on THIS weekend that we explored

 the mountains of Shenandoah 

and the caverns of Luray

It is on THIS weekend that Tyra sent me comfort

 dressed as a rainbow

    I continue to be grateful for the gifts of THIS weekend.

           

                            

Soooo much in-between...

I was initially going to name this post "8 1/2 x 11". You see there is a Remembrance Service at the childrens hospital later this month for children who have died while in their care. As a part of this service they put together a memory book in which each family has an 8 1/2 x 11 page on which to honor their child. Please don't get me wrong, this is an amazing service and I am so very grateful to have Tyra remembered on this day and in this book along with the many other children who have also left this physical world. I attended last year and took great 'comfort' in the community of families who were traveling this journey. I was however saddened at trying to capture Tyra's life on this 8 1/2 x 11 page, so final. As a part of the service they also have a slide show displaying each child's photo. Again, I was saddened that my favorite photo of Tyra is the same as last years. There will be no new photos of my sweet girl.

But today instead of focusing on this 8 1/2 x 11 page I am reminded of a quote by Viktor Frankl -

" Everything can be taken from a man or a woman but one thing: the last of human freedoms to choose one's attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one's own way." 

So today I choose to focus on the SOOOO MUCH IN-BETWEEN. At Tyra's service our dear friend Mr. Alston spoke of the dash, that little line between ones date of birth and date of death. Oh what a dash Tyra had. It was full of awesome adventures, amazing experiences, but most importantly everlasting relationships.

Tyra was a friend, a best friend, a girlfriend even (Just ask Glenn).
She was a student, to teachers who had great expectations - challenging themselves and her along the way.
She was a patient; to doctors, nurses, and therapists who came to know, respect, and love her as more than a collection of signs & symptoms.

Tyra is part of a FAMILY. She is a daughter, a sister, a niece, a grandchild, and she is now an Aunt to a precious little boy.     

I dare to say that through her dash she has become the best part of many wonderful peoples in-betweens!

SOOOO MUCH, indeed.